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There are thousands of books and other products that teach about how to become successful in record time (such as in five days, two days, or even hours), however, once we become successful, we have to know how to maintain that status.
In today’s society, you will see many different methods of how people define and maintain success. For example, those members of the elite club, “the rich and famous”, attain this status because someone, millions of people like you and I, takes notice of their success as well. Anytime we see our favorite celebrity in a movie, produce an album, create a clothing line, or representing the “face” of a particular product, we run to the movie theater or the store to patronize them.
Now, I will be quick to say that there is nothing wrong with entertainment because all of us need a balance in our lives. We can’t work all day and everyday without the fruits of our labor. However, we must change our perspective on success and actually attain this goal for ourselves in every area of our lives. And, not only must we change our perspective on success, but we must know how to maintain a successful life. There are many people who write books and “get rich quick schemes” about being successful in 5 days, 2 days, and even hours. Yet, once we become successful, we have to know how to stay successful.
But, before we can even delve into maintaining success, we must define success. The most important thing to remember is that success can’t be defined in the same way for everyone because we all have different goals and paths in life. A basic definition for success is to achieve high quality status in that particular area in such a way that benefits you financially (career), physically (health), and socially (relationships) for example. Take time today to determine and define what success means for your life.
Yet in still, we must be careful to understand that success will not manifest itself in the same way as in the lives of your friends and family. To an extent, you have to come to terms with the fact that you may not become a millionaire or one of Hollywood’s finest. On the other hand, you may become a millionaire or stock broker, and you have to be prepared to deal with whichever way success comes in your life.
On the other side of this argument, you do have control of your destiny. No, we can’t control everything in life, but you can make the decision to pursue that dream job, lose the extra weight, go back to school, or any other goal you have set out. I am a firm believer in the fact that if we take the initiative and take the initial step, God will help us to complete that goal.
Once you have defined success and taken the first steps in reaching your goal, you have to decide how you will maintain that status. It is very important to note that maintaining anything takes a lot of hard work. So, you have to be prepared to run into discouragement either from other people or yourself. You may fail the first time, but try again. Depending upon the situation, you may have to learn a new language or new skills, but don’t fear the changes, embrace them willingly.
Finally, take action, go out there and become successful.
有成千上萬(wàn)本書籍或其他作品告訴人們?nèi)绾尾拍茉诙虝r(shí)間內(nèi)獲得成功（比如五天內(nèi)，兩天內(nèi)，甚至幾小時(shí)），然而，一但我們成功了，我們要知道如何才能保持這種狀態(tài)。
在當(dāng)今社會(huì)，你會(huì)看到人們?cè)鯓佣x并保持成功的各種不同的方法。例如，那些精英俱樂(lè)部的會(huì)員們,＂財(cái)富新貴們＂，靠某個(gè)人獲得如此殊榮，成千上萬(wàn)的人們包括你和我，注視著他們的成功．我們只要在電影里看到喜歡的名人，出了新的專輯，創(chuàng)造了新的服裝潮流或者為某種產(chǎn)品做了代言，我們就跑到各大影院或商場(chǎng)去支持他們．
現(xiàn)在，我想馬上說(shuō)的是這樣的娛樂(lè)并沒(méi)有什么不妥，因?yàn)槲覀冊(cè)谏钪行枰胶庖幌拢覀儾荒苷於荚诠ぷ骰蛘呙刻觳蝗シ窒韯趧?dòng)的果實(shí)．所以，我們必須改變對(duì)成功的預(yù)期并且要確實(shí)在生活中的每個(gè)方面都要達(dá)到目標(biāo)．還有，我們不但要改變對(duì)成功的預(yù)期，還要知道如何保持成功的生活．現(xiàn)在有很多人出書寫關(guān)于在五天內(nèi)，兩天內(nèi)甚至幾小時(shí)內(nèi)＂快速成功的秘訣＂．然而，一旦我們成功了，我們要知道如何才能保持這種狀態(tài)．
但是在我們要研究怎樣保持成功之前，我們必須給成功定義．記住最重要的事就是成功不能被定義得適用于每個(gè)人，因?yàn)槲覀兯腥嗽谏钪卸加胁煌哪繕?biāo)和途徑．對(duì)成功的一個(gè)基本的定義就是以某種方式在某個(gè)領(lǐng)域達(dá)到一種高品質(zhì)的狀態(tài)而有益于你的財(cái)產(chǎn)（職業(yè)），生理（健康），和社交（各種關(guān)系）等等．今天就抓緊時(shí)間下定決心并且定義什么樣的成功對(duì)你的生活有意義．
我們依然要仔細(xì)想想成功不會(huì)以你朋友的家庭生活的那種相同方式再次上演．從某種程度來(lái)講，你必須要面對(duì)你不會(huì)成為百萬(wàn)富翁或好萊塢巨星的可能．從另一方面來(lái)講，你也有可能成為百萬(wàn)富翁或股票經(jīng)紀(jì)人，并且你不得不要做好準(zhǔn)備來(lái)對(duì)待生活中成功到來(lái)的任何方式．
討論的另一方面就是你確實(shí)在掌控你自己的命運(yùn)．不，我們控制不了生活中的任何事情，但是你能下定決心去追求理想的工作，減掉多余的體重，重返學(xué)校或完成你制定的其它任何目標(biāo)．我堅(jiān)信一個(gè)事實(shí)就是如果我們有主動(dòng)性并且開始邁出第一步，上帝會(huì)幫助我們完成目標(biāo)的．
一旦你已經(jīng)給成功準(zhǔn)確定義并且為達(dá)到目標(biāo)開始行動(dòng)以后，你必須決定如何才能保持這種狀態(tài)．重要的一點(diǎn)是要注意保持有任何東西都需要大量艱苦的工作．所以，你不得不準(zhǔn)備好面對(duì)來(lái)自他人或自己的打擊．你也許第一次會(huì)失敗，但是要再試一次．取決于這種形勢(shì)，你必須學(xué)會(huì)一門新的語(yǔ)言或新的技能，不要害怕改變，欣然去接受他們．
最后，趕快行動(dòng)起來(lái)，離開這里取得成功．
