Searching for a job is a roller coaster ride!

    找工作就像坐過(guò)山車！

    There are some days when you are flying high and there are other days when you are in a free fall and your stomach is in your throat.

    有些時(shí)候，你會(huì)興奮不已，而有時(shí)候你的心情又會(huì)一落千丈。

    Having a positive attitude is the one thing that will support your entire job search process.

    保持積極的態(tài)度，這將是對(duì)你整個(gè)找工作過(guò)程都有幫助的一種心態(tài)。

    If you're attitude isn't right, you don't want to do research, you don't want to networking and you can't interview because recruiters can sniff out a bad attitude about 7 miles away!

    如果你的態(tài)度不正確，你就不想搜索信息，不想社交，進(jìn)而不能參加面試，因?yàn)檎心颊咴?英里之外就能"嗅到"到你的消極態(tài)度！

    In January 2009, 4.5 million Americans landed a job and in February 2009, 4.4 million Americans got jobs. Be one of them by using these strategies for keeping your attitude where it needs to be … in the positive column:

    2009年1月，450萬(wàn)美國(guó)人尋找工作，而在2009年2月份，440萬(wàn)美國(guó)人找到了工作。利用下面這些策略，可以使自己保持積極態(tài)度，從而成為成功求職者中的一員：

    Take care of yourself inside & out: As Fernando Llamas and Billy Crystal used to say "it's better to look good than to feel good" … so aim for both because not looking your best will affect your attitude! Even if it's just a 30 minute walk every day, those endorphins will kick in and you will feel better. If you are cost conscious & want to skip hair cuts or getting rid of some premature grey hair, there are low cost alternatives.

    全方位的打理好自己：就像費(fèi)爾南多？拉馬斯（Fernando Llamas）和比利？克里斯特爾（Billy Crystal）曾說(shuō)過(guò)的那樣："看起來(lái)不錯(cuò)比自我感覺(jué)良好更重要"……因此，力爭(zhēng)在這兩個(gè)方面都表現(xiàn)良好，因?yàn)槿绻�你不�?duì)自己提最高的要求，那將會(huì)影響你的態(tài)度！即使只是每天步行30分鐘，那些內(nèi)啡肽也將會(huì)被排除，從而使你感覺(jué)更好。如果你有成本意識(shí)，避免將來(lái)用各種方法去掉一些過(guò)早斑白的頭發(fā)，你可以找一些低成本的替代選擇。

    Positive in, positive out: You should read the paper to keep up on what is going on, but stay away from the crime stats, bankruptcy filings, and the like. Watch movies that are uplifting. Read books that are positive and encouraging. Do not spend time with negative people as they are like crabs in a bucket. As Al Pacino said in Godfather III: "every time I try to get out they pull you back!"

    營(yíng)造良好正面的環(huán)境：你要看報(bào)紙，了解正在發(fā)生的時(shí)事，但要遠(yuǎn)離犯罪統(tǒng)計(jì)，企業(yè)破產(chǎn)申報(bào)等消息�？匆恍┝钊苏駣^的電影，讀一些令人保持積極狀態(tài)并受到鼓舞的書(shū)籍。不要和消沉的人在一起浪費(fèi)時(shí)間，因?yàn)樗麄兙拖袼�桶里的螃蟹。就像艾爾？帕西諾（Al Pacino）在《教父3》中所說(shuō)："每一次我要離開(kāi)都被他們拉了回去！"

    Network: Networking is about developing a long term, mutually beneficial relationship of give & take, with the emphasis on the "give". Try these open ended questions and you'll start to meet a lot of people who will think very positively about you & keep you in mind should they hear about any openings: a） how did you get in the X business?, b） what do you enjoy doing most about what you do?, c） what separates your company from the competition, d） what significant changes have taken place in your profession through the years?, e） what do you see as the trends in your business? Ask them and see what type of response you get. I'll guarantee you, use any 2 of these questions, and you'll not even to a third. They are that powerful. And remember the follow up to these questions: LISTEN!

    社交，營(yíng)建關(guān)系網(wǎng)：社交就是要營(yíng)造一種長(zhǎng)期、互惠的付出/收獲的關(guān)系，且重點(diǎn)在于"付出".試著回答這些開(kāi)放式問(wèn)題，你馬上就會(huì)遇到很多人，他們將非常積極地看待你，或者在聽(tīng)說(shuō)任何空缺職位的時(shí)候都會(huì)想到你：1）你是如何進(jìn)入某一行的？2）就現(xiàn)在你做的事情而言，你最喜歡的地方是？3）你的公司與競(jìng)爭(zhēng)對(duì)手的區(qū)別在哪里？4）這些年來(lái)，你的職業(yè)生涯發(fā)生了哪些顯著的變化？5）你這行有什么趨勢(shì)？你可以問(wèn)問(wèn)他們這些問(wèn)題，看看會(huì)得到什么類型的答案。我向你保證，詢問(wèn)這些問(wèn)題中的任何2個(gè)，你甚至不用問(wèn)到第3個(gè)。它們的作用超級(jí)強(qiáng)大。要記住接下來(lái)你要做的事情：傾聽(tīng)！

    Good listeners are few and far between and they will be remembered.

    好的傾聽(tīng)者是不常遇到的，他們將會(huì)被記住。

    Join a job search support group or power group. Find other people that are in the same situation you are in, and meet once a week to support one another and trade leads and tips, and help to troubleshoot what may not be going well. But make sure it's a positive group. I've seen an emergence of these groups lately … so check your local paper. In my neighborhood in Staten Island, New York, St. Clare's Church has an Employment Group that meets every Tuesday from 7 – 9 pm. If you can't find a local group, think of creating one yourself, or join a virtual group on LinkedIn.com. There are at least two dozen groups that share info virtually.

    加入求職者支援團(tuán)體：尋找和你有類似狀況的人，一星期聚會(huì)一次，互相打氣，交換機(jī)會(huì)信息和秘訣，相互排憂解難。但是，要確保你加入的是一個(gè)積極的團(tuán)體。最近，我已經(jīng)看到了這種團(tuán)體的出現(xiàn)……因此，搜索你當(dāng)?shù)氐膱?bào)紙吧。在我所在的紐約史泰登島上，圣？克萊爾教堂有個(gè)就業(yè)團(tuán)體，每周二下午7點(diǎn)到9點(diǎn)聚會(huì)。如果你不能找到一個(gè)本地的團(tuán)體，那就考慮自己建立一個(gè)，或在LinkedIn.com網(wǎng)站上加入一個(gè)虛擬團(tuán)體。事實(shí)上，那里至少有20多個(gè)團(tuán)體在分享信息。

    Attitude is everything! If it's not right, you cannot possibly conduct a proactive and effective job search. Do what you need to do to get it right. Sometimes, people need to get the negative thoughts out … speak them to a good friend, write them down on a piece of paper, and be done with it. Life is short! Get your attitude right and get that job!!

    態(tài)度決定一切！如果不是這樣地話，你就不可能進(jìn)行積極、有效地求職工作。做你需要做的事情并把它做好。有時(shí)候，人們需要避開(kāi)消極的思想……把那些消極的思想向好朋友傾訴，寫(xiě)在紙上，然后與之拜拜。人生苦短，矯正態(tài)度去工作吧！