Dreary feelings like confusion, frustration, tension, and sadness are some of the feelings we experience when we are out of balance. Love is an essential part of life, especially on Valentine’s Day. Life without love is like a tree without blossom and fruit, wrote Khalil Gibran.

    Finding the one big love has always been an uphill battle. Think of this: there are approximately three billion men and women on the planet. Eliminating the old, the young and the already committed, this still leaves a substantial potential pool of perfectly precious people.

    Love is the most beautiful feeling. It thrills the heart including other organs. So, do not bite your nails worrying, with the appropriate behavior, here are some tips on how to find love before Valentine’s Day.
Be fresh. Be clean and neat, inside and out. The feeling of cleanliness makes you comfortable to huddle up or to get close with anyone.

    Do not put your image down. The first ingredient to dating success is self-confidence. In short, if you cannot convince yourself that you are such a charming, and appealing person, how can you convince others? Get rid of negative subconscious messages inside of you. Forget thoughts like “I am fat,” “I stammer,” or “I am short in height.” However, do not over do it, you might end up conceited or arrogant. Just be kind to yourself.

    Be interesting and interested. You may not be very interested in computer games and you may want to hear more tips on cross-stitching, however, if you are open to the potentials in someone else’s world, you can find new and interesting surprises. Ask questions—this is the best cure for the anxiety of wondering what to talk about--or you can prepare a few in advance. Likewise, be a good listener. A great conversation is a good blend of talking and listening.

    Make first contact short. Lunch date is brilliant. If it ends great, it means both of you want more. If it ends otherwise, the next thing to do is to wave goodbye. Remember, dating is gaining experience. Dating is a gracious activity.

    Be yourself. Most people try to be someone else—usually a smarter, more likeable, more compelling version of themselves. Do not impart your darkest secrets or provide a detailed list of your worst fears. Be yourself means being you, without fretting about your perfection percentage. Things that make a first date truly memorable are the mental more than the physical connections.

    Breathe. Relax. Do feel desperate if your date is not a contender for the Big Time. Appreciate the fact that your date took the time to meet you. If your date is not interesting enough, then it is time to move on.

    When will love come? Some find love late. Some find love soon. Some find love with the rose in May and some with the nightingale in June, wrote Pakenham Beatty.

    Dating is the look-see encounter. If the person wins your heart, or vice-versa, then your Valentine's Day will be special. If not, look back at the experience with appreciation and respect. For some love sings, for some love sighs, for some love's lips are dumb, added Pakenham Beatty.

    憂郁的感覺(jué)比如困惑、受挫、緊張和傷心，這些感覺(jué)是我們失去平衡時(shí)所經(jīng)歷的。愛(ài)情是人生中必不可以的一部分，特別是在情人節(jié)那天。Khalil Gibran 曾經(jīng)有一句名言：如果人生沒(méi)有愛(ài)情，就好像一顆沒(méi)有花朵和果實(shí)的樹(shù)一樣。

    找到一個(gè)讓自己深愛(ài)人，就好像一場(chǎng)艱難的戰(zhàn)斗�？紤]到這個(gè)因素：世上大約有30億男人和女人，除了那些老年、年輕人和已經(jīng)結(jié)婚了的人，仍然有相當(dāng)多的人處在黃金時(shí)期。

    愛(ài)是一種最美好的感覺(jué)，它可以讓心臟和人體上的其他組織感到興奮。所以，你不要擔(dān)心得嘴手指甲，而是采取適當(dāng)?shù)男袆?dòng)，下面有一些關(guān)于如何在情人節(jié)前找到愛(ài)人的提示。

    保持精神。體里體外保持清潔和穿著整齊。清潔的感覺(jué)可以讓你舒服地縮成一團(tuán)，和接近任何一個(gè)人。

    不要降低你的個(gè)人形象。約會(huì)成功的首要條件就是自信�？傊�，如果你對(duì)自己是一個(gè)如此有魅力和吸引人的人都沒(méi)有信心，你又如何使別人相信你呢？去掉你心中消極的、潛意識(shí)的思想。忘記那些想法，比如“我好肥，我吃口或者我好矮”。但是，如果你不克服這些思想，你將會(huì)以驕傲自滿或自高自大的悲劇結(jié)束，你只有善待你自己。

    成為有興趣的人，并且讓別人對(duì)人感興趣。你可能對(duì)電腦游戲沒(méi)有興趣，而是想聽(tīng)更多十字繡的提示；但是，如果你能激發(fā)別人世界中的一潛力，你可以找到新的和有興趣的令人吃驚的事物。問(wèn)問(wèn)以下問(wèn)題：這就是治療因想知談?wù)撌裁炊�感到不安的最好方法，或者你可以事前�?zhǔn)備好一些東西。同樣地，成為一個(gè)好的傾聽(tīng)者。一次好的談話，就是一次好的說(shuō)和聽(tīng)的混合。

    第一次接觸時(shí)間要短。吃午飯的時(shí)間要恰當(dāng)。如果結(jié)束得好，那么它意味著你們兩個(gè)都想接觸的時(shí)間更長(zhǎng)；否則，接下來(lái)要做的事情就是揮手再見(jiàn)。要記得，約會(huì)正在積累經(jīng)驗(yàn)。約會(huì)是一種有禮貌的活動(dòng)。

    做你自己。大多數(shù)人都償試成為其他人，經(jīng)常是一個(gè)精明的人、更可愛(ài)的人、對(duì)他們的看法更有強(qiáng)迫性的人。不要透露你最不想告訴別人的秘密，或?qū)⒛阕詈ε碌氖虑榱谐鰜?lái)。做你自己就是是你自己。